tired of Thamel

17 10 2009

Tomorrow morning we leave on our trek from Jiri to Namche Bazaar (the main Sherpa town), and from there to Gokyo and Everest Base Camp. I’m really excited about the Jiri to Namche part because we are likely to be the only tourists around–most fly into Lukla and trek to Namche Bazaar and Base Camp from there. By starting in Jiri, we will also have more time to acclimate to the altitude.

We’re dying to leave Thamel, it is not really our style…ridden with hoardes of tourists…and yes, we are tourists too, we just don’t prefer to be around masses of them. It’s also incredibly loud, especially since our room last night was feet away from a ragin’ techno disco.

We were up early this morning and were some of the few tourists out and about. The Nepalis were up and seemed to be washing the city…scrubbing the storefronts and sweeping the streets. Dogs were everywhere helping with cleanup, and a cow also was picking through the trash.

One thing I’ve noticed that is very different from the U.S. is that man friends walk around holding hands/arm in arm/arms around each other or sit together in ways that are percieved by us Westerners as “cuddling”. It’s really very sweet and natural, though it would have such a different meaning in the U.S.

Today we walked up many steep stairs to get to Swayambhunath, a Buddhist temple over 2000 years old. On the way up, it seemed there were families everywhere, of people, dogs, and rhesus macacques. Even more so at the top. All the animals are completely ignored, and vice versa…there are puppies and baby monkeys everywhere but no one cares at all. It’s pretty excting for me to see my first wild primates, and rhesus macacques are so adorable and agile! At the top, trees were swaddled in prayer flags, and I really liked that there were many seemingly local people just there to check it out as well. Today’s a holiday actually, “Tihar”, festival of lights; there are strings of marigolds everywhere (I am actually not sure if they are holiday-related, it could be the norm), sand paintings on the ground, expanses of candles, etc.

I can’t figure out how to get my photos online, though I haven’t tried very hard. I’ll give it another shot next time we use the internet…which may not be until we get to Namche Bazaar in about 9 days or so.

Thanks for all the comments, miss you all!





finally in Nepal.

16 10 2009

So we have officially, safely arrived in Kathmandu after a couple intense travel days…

Our flight to Seoul was an experience for me for two main reasons: 1) it was my first international flight, and 2) it was my first 12+ hour flight. Or 7+ hour flight for that matter.

Korea Airlines is so different from what I’m used to. The army of identically styled flight attendants were such troopers..practically robotic service. They all wore the same shirts, shoes, same immaculate hair bun with gravity-defying hair ribbon, same starchy neck scarf protruding from their collars at a 45 degree angle. They periodically brought us various amenities including a pouch with toothbrush and a single serving tube of toothpaste, socks, eyemask, drinks, hot meat buns, 2 meals, wine, bananas, hot towels, etc.

The time change threw me off a bit–we had a solid 20+ hours of daylight that day. When we landed in Seoul (5 movies and 1 Friends episode later…) my watch (still set  to CA time) read 1:45 am, but it was 5:45 pm, and still light out, there.

We didn’t see much of Korea as we were there for only 15 hours and the Hyatt we stayed in (free of charge, meals included) was less than 5 minutes away from the airport (which, by the way, isn’t really in Seoul but on an island nearby). The only thing I really noted about Korea were the cool airport architecture, hazy air, and the fact that I got my first-ever passport stamp.

This morning we had a 7ish hour flight from Seoul to Kathmandu. I saw the Himalayas from the plane, which was odd…usually when you see mountains from airplanes, you feel like they’re so far below you, but with these, I felt like I was seeing them eye-to-eye. They’re so high, they rise above the clouds.

Getting off the plane, we went on one of those stair things straight to the ground–not the tubular hallway straight into the airport that I’m used to. We were last in line for visas, so when we got outside the bus to the Kathmandu Guest House was gone. We hired a “taxi” (a normal person driving his car) to take us there.

That drive was something else. It’s hard to even describe…first of all, the driving is absolutely insane. I felt like we were in a videogame, that’s how much disregard there is for any sort of traffic rule. I guess they drive on the left, but you really can’t tell because they drive wherever it’s open. And I use the term “open” loosely because I don’t even know how we fit through some of those spaces. The cars are pure chaos in themselves, but weaving in between are motorcycles and pedestrians, who seem oblivious yet not at all nervous that they are inches away from a speeding vehicle. People honk their horn every few seconds, yet never show any other form of frustration or anger. It’s just a big mess…there’s no right of way whatsoever, people just swerve around any and all obstacles. Somehow, it seems to work. By the way, no seatbelts. And my door was suspiciously rattling the whole time.

But there was so much to look at, I was unconcerned with the driving.  I couldn’t believe I was seeing all this in real life, it looks so much like pictures I’ve seen of places all over the world. I was too mesmerized to pull out my camera. I saw so many things that I kind of expected to see: mangy puppies everywhere, an old woman carrying hundreds of eggs on her back, a monkey knucklewalkin’ it, women in their beautiful dress holding babies, old crumbly buildings, sacred cows just hanging around, and unfortunately an adorable girl came begging at the window of our car.

Suddenly, the number of non-Nepalis changed from none at all to about one in four, and we knew were close to the Guest House. I felt an abrupt change from people simply trying to survive to people trying to make money.

We got to the Guest House and were told that, although we had a reservation, they overbooked and we were escorted to a place called Hotel Buddha and given a room. It’s fine, noisy as expected. The shower has no division from the rest of the bathroom.

That about sums it up. We’ve walked around this (very touristy) section of Kathmandu, and already we want to get out of here and get going with our trek. We bought a map today, and I got a Birds of Nepal field guide to take. I’ve been into the birds…I had skimmed the bird section of one of our guidebooks when we were in the air, and as soon as we exited the plane I saw a black fork-tailed raptor called a Pariah Kite.

So there you go. Perhaps too long and detailed, but I’ll get in the swing of things. Right now I just have to report what I’ve seen, cause it’s all happened so fast I haven’t been able to process much of it.

We leave on our trek hopefully the day after tomorrow (Sunday 18 October). No idea what internet options I’ll have there.

Until next time!





Why Nepal?

10 10 2009

People ask me, why (of all the places in the world), why are you going to Nepal? I think they see the reasons people may have for going there, but they want to hear my reasons.

Well. I’ve known about Nepal since I’ve  known anything at all, because Nepal is a place very special to my father. He lived there for three years total: two with the Peace Corps and one a few years later when he returned. He has not been back since then, which was over 40 years ago, although he’s always wanted to return. I’ve always wanted to go to Nepal as well, having heard so much about it over the years. We had tentatively planned to do a Nepal trip fall quarter of my 4th year (aka next year) but when my study abroad plans fell through this fall, I (desperate to get out of the country somehow) urged him to do the trip a year early. Apparently it was my (rudely?) reminding him that he’s uh…not getting any younger…you might as well do the trip when you’re in great shape and able to enjoy it…that convinced him.

So now we’re going. We leave in four days and it’s my first time out of the country since I became self-aware. I’ve always wanted to be a traveler, and I’m excited to get started, and most of all, excited to start with Nepal.

Nepal isn’t a place many people go, so I feel so lucky that in just a few days I will be there. Most people just think of Everest when they hear Nepal, or that one scene in that one movie where the star goes there and becomes badass, maaaaybe they could think of the capital (Kathmandu) if they really thought about it. I’m going to be there for 8 weeks, I’ll (hopefully) come back with a feel for the place and many real things to say about it.

Another cool thing is, the first time Pops went to Nepal, he was twenty-two and just out of college, where I’ll be in a few years. We’ll visit villages he lived in over 40 years ago. Spending weeks trekking in the Himalayas with him, I’m going to get a lot of questions answered about his life (which has always been rather mysterious to me).





hasty entry

24 09 2009

I just returned from one of the priciest shopping sprees I’ve been on. Stuff for Nepal, stuff for backpackin’.

REI has some crazy awesome expensive stuff, y’all. Titanium sporks: $11! A waterproof, windproof jacket that must have been made of tissue paper: $70! Underwear called: “17 countries, 6 weeks, one pair of underwear”: $18! Silk sleeping bag liner: $65ish! Oy. Whenever you find something reasonable, there’s always something considerably more expensive and approximately 3000x lighter and 3000x better.

I picked up my dream zipoff pants: gray, the least dorky I could find.

At Best Buy I bought this camera:

The Canon PowerShot SX120 IS. I am not sure how I feel about it yet–it’s still in the box. I want to take a camera to the Desolation Wilderness tomorrow though, so I have to get over my uncertainty and get it set up. I have a memory card that holds 2000 pictures.

Time to pack.





concert envy.

17 09 2009

Dang. The Pogues and DeVotchKa together is one killllllller concert. Too bad it’s US$45.00-US$67.00, before adding the other extraneous fees they always charge you. Also too bad it’s the day before I leave for Nepal. Daaaaaaaaang.





to and fro

16 09 2009

I just wanna say, I hope my blog has evolved…reading early entries embarrasses me…I was trying so hard, yet sounding so unlike myself. Oh well. It’s going to evolve much more profoundly in the next few months as I prepare for, journey in, and reflect upon my time in Nepal.





my dream

14 09 2009

Last night I dreamt I was on the back steps of a large fancy house, reading. A tall man with a large black mustache and a black shirt with large, fancy, puffy sleeves walked in through the front door, and then walked past me and out the back gate (I said hi to him but he didn’t acknowledge me). Then he knocked on the front door once, and walked in. I looked at him. He got large scissors (the kind used to cut fabric) out of a drawer in the kitchen and tossed them at me. Then he walked over and stabbed me several times in the neck with them.

The End





don’t be skinny

13 09 2009





let’s take a walk

12 09 2009

What do I like? What can I be happy with? Slower, please.

I think I just have to go stream-of-consciousness on this one, because for some reason (no matter how many drafts I do) I can’t seem to write something worth publishing.

In a few days, it will be my 20th birthday, a day I (oddly, morbidly) never expected to come. I loathe my own birthday–what a selfish holiday! But I’m uncharacteristically proud that I am so close to this one. Twenty sounds better than nineteen, and for once, I feel like it’s right, and I’m ready.

My mind likes to plan, but never likes to follow through. Some days, I hate the idea of graduate school…shouldn’t I be done with college when I’m done with college? People say: you’re crazy, grad school is the new college. Then I realize how close I am to that end and think: but what then? And then grad school seems like the most appealing thing in the world because 1) I love colleges, and I wish I could attend so many of them and 2) it would allow me to procrastinate on the monotony of entering the cliché “real world” and getting  stuck at some dumb boring job in some dumb boring place and decide that all my former aspirations were childish fantasies, completely unrealistic and unattainable in real life.

I have found that my most rewarding experiences have come from me finding something scary, doing this scary (often irreversible) thing, and then living with it. I’m hoping this is what will happen with Nepal. This was all my idea, and it’s the most remarkable idea that’s ever been this close to coming true. I begged my dad to do this, but I only kind of expected him to agree. And then he did and I was thrilled but now I’m thinking it over. I never thought it over before, because it’s easier to be enthusiastic about things you don’t think over, but now I am and I’m starting to scare myself. I have a lot of stuff to do to prepare but I don’t do any of it. I think I need to be thrown into it, soon. Stop my mind running circles around the concept and ACT. I’m terrified for it. I’m unbelievably, gratefully, excited for it. I’m impatient for it. This is going to be big, and it’s going to change my life.





This Summer

7 09 2009

I have…

  • flown somewhere on an airplane
  • learned new songs on guitar
  • been to many garage sales
  • attended an outdoor concert
  • picked wild berries and made a pie
  • gone camping
  • attended a sporting event
  • painted
  • slept under the stars
  • gone to the beach
  • finished books
  • improved my cooking
  • ridden on a train
  • watched countless movies
  • discovered new favorites
  • sung around a campfire
  • floated for miles down a river

I still need to…

  • road trip
  • backpack
  • go to a Giant’s game
  • make some money

As far as they go, I’ve had a pretty successful summer. And there’s still plenty of time left.